The House of Growth™ is more than a website — it’s a living ecosystem designed to support your personal and development. Inside this house, you’ll find three distinct rooms, each offering a unique way to grow:
pH Academy — annual curriculum, courses, and guided pathways
The GPS Pathway™ — guided personal development tracks to meet your learning needs
The Growth Scroll — a living library of programs, teachings and reflections
The Growth Shop — tools, books, journals, and resources
Whether you’re beginning your journey or going deeper, The House of Growth offers a rhythm and a room for every season — one theme, one intention, one step at a time.
Explore the Rooms in the House of Growth. 👇🏾
pH Academy is the heart of our structured learning environment — a members-only community offering guided courses, monthly rhythms, and annual curriculum themes. Each year unfolds with clarity and purpose, giving you a path that aligns with your season.
Whether you’re joining mid-year or planning your next step, you’ll find support, structure, and space to grow at your own pace.
The GPS Pathway™ is a guided personal development journey designed to help you clarify direction, align intention, and sustain forward momentum. Whether you prefer guided teaching, reflective journaling, or live accountability, GPS meets you where you are and supports where you’re going.
The Growth Scroll is your ongoing library of teachings, reflections, and insights. Updated seasonally, it captures the heart of each year’s theme — helping you stay grounded, inspired, and aligned.
Think of it as a spiritual archive, always available for moments when you need clarity, encouragement, or perspective.
Visit often because the scroll evolves.
Welcome to the Growth Shop — your workspace for transformation.
Here you’ll find tools designed to support your development journey one practice at a time. From printable guides and digital journals to physical card decks and resources, every item here helps you move from awareness to intention to momentum.
Whether you’re deepening your emotional intelligence, strengthening your habits, or cultivating clarity, the Growth Shop offers tools that meet you right where you are — and help you grow forward.
Your growth is a journey. The House of Growth gives you room to grow.
⚓ - MONTHLY ANCHORS - Ongoing rhythms each month
April 1 - June 30, 2026
💲- $97
Every quarterly offering of the GPS Accountability Circle has a theme and follows a month teaching cadence of Growth, Purpose and Success. This quarter's focus is Strategic Alignment.
The Growth lens explores Resilience when roles are not defined.
The Purpose lens uses the I, TRANSFORMED Framework and will explore Awareness, Nurture and Stewardship.
The Success lens uses the RICH Framework and will focus on Impact through contribution.
Includes all GPS teaching as well as pH Academy Reflect teaching on Awareness, Intention and Momentum.
In essence, the quarterly program includes 6 full courses plus group coaching, accountability and support.
NOTE: The GPS Accountability Circle is for women only.
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Class open 1/1 -12/31/26
💲- $27
ROOTed Rhythms™ is a gentle, yearlong rhythm designed to help you grow more grounded, more aware, and more aligned with God’s pace for your life.
Through weekly 1-minute teachings, reflective journaling, and seasonal Pot Checks™, you’ll cultivate a sustainable spiritual rhythm rooted in truth, not pressure.
Enroll for $27 and receive access for the full 2026 journey, with integration through June 30, 2027.
Grow slow. Root deep. You don’t have to rush. You just have to return.
Enrollment is ongoing throughout the year.
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ROOTwork & GRIEFwork Devotionals - Jubilee
ROOTwork is a sacred invitation to grow deeper, steadier, and stronger from the inside out.
The GRIEFwork Devotional Series is a sacred space for navigating loss with honesty, gentleness, and grace.
Monthly devotionals of the same work though two difference lenses each month.
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Intentional Connection
💲- $5
Emotional intelligence is not learned once, but lived always.
Welcome to the pH EQ Reset Series. This month’s theme, Mutual Regard, is about Respect.
This month invites you to notice respect as a lived posture, not a performance. Mutual regard begins internally and expresses itself outwardly through attention, restraint, and choice.
NOTE: These Journals are offered in 2026 at a limited-time launch price.
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June 1 - June 30, 2026
💲- FREE
Join Coach Paula through a daily response practice using the RESPONSE Code Framework. This 30-day practice will help you notice and shift how you respond in your everyday life.
The practice includes a daily practice guide as well as daily and weekly video encouragement from Coach Paula.
→ This is where awareness begins.
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June 7, 2026 - 7pm EST
💲- FREE
Every month a word. Every word a way forward.
This month's topic - JUBILEE in Grief
In June, we explore what JUBILEE means within grief. In a season marked by loss, “Jubilee” surprises the heart with moments of freedom and release. We will explore letting go of emotional debts you were never meant to carry, embracing unexpected joy, and celebrating small victories in your healing. We will reclaim your breath, your space, and your sense of possibility.
Registration for one event provides access to all meetings for 2026.
Hope to see you there!
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June 7, 2026 - Substack
💲- FREE
Every month on the 7th, Selaya offers a reflective word - a pause for your soul and a spark for your spirit.
The spoken work is on the odd months and the written work is on the even work. All of the work can be viewed on Substack using the link. Lean in as Selaya Speaks.
Follow the blog for notifications.
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June 8, 2026 - 7-8pm EST
💲- FREE
Captain’s Corner is a new teaching series designed to honor and strengthen the role of men as builders, protectors, and legacy carriers.
In this free introductory masterclass, Coach Paula introduces five foundational pillars that form the architecture of a good man:
• The Weight of a Man – the presence and responsibility he carries
• The Seed of a Man – the influence he plants in others
• The Safety of a Man – the stability and covering he provides
• The Sound of a Man – the voice, tone, and truth that shape a home
• The Legacy of a Man – the impact that continues long after he speaks
This masterclass is for:
• Fathers
• Husbands
• Sons
• Men stepping into leadership
• Women who want to better understand and support the men in their lives
Whether you are a man seeking clarity in your role or someone who loves and supports a good man, this conversation will bring language, perspective, and encouragement to the influence men carry every day.
This session also introduces the upcoming Captain’s Corner series, where each pillar will be explored more deeply in future masterclasses designed for men only.
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June 10, 2026
💲- FREE
Introducing something new to our ecosystem: The Excellence Series.
Excellence is often misunderstood. Many assume it means perfection, performance, or pressure. In truth, excellence is something quieter and far more powerful. It is the steady decision to bring your best presence, your best character, and your best effort to the moment you have been given.
The inaugural 7-day Excellence email series will begin on June 10, a date chosen intentionally to honor the life and influence of my dear friend, Gene Raymond. Gene lived in a way that reflected the quiet strength of excellence. Not loud. Not performative. Simply consistent, principled, and steady.
This short email series will introduce the foundation of excellence within our growth journey. Inside the House of Growth, we practice AIM - Awareness, Intention and Momentum. But growth must be sustained.
AIM grows the life. Excellence sustains it through devotion and discipline.
June 12, 2026 - 12 noon EST
💲- FREE
Join Coach Paula for this month's Titration Talks discussion. It will be a practical dialogue on building a rooted rule of life that transforms chaos into clarity.
We will focus on how order can generate energy, simplify decision-making, and give you momentum without feeling boxed in.
Hope to see you there!
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June 19, 2026 - 12 noon EST
💲- FREE
Join me for TEA with Me - a 30-minute monthly drop-in conversation where we sip Thought, Experience and Application for life, love, grief, growth and anything!
It is not a presentation - it's a conversation. Bring your questions or just your presence.
Registration provides access to all monthly meetings. Hope to see you there!
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June 22, 2026 - 7pm EST
💲- FREE
You're growing. But what will sustain the life you are building?
In this special teaching, Coach Paula introduces the concept of excellence—not as perfection or performance, but as a quiet, steady practice that sustains intentional living.
This Masterclass will explore:
• why growth often stalls without a sustaining standard
• how excellence shapes the character of our daily choices
• the simple practice that can help you honor the life you are building
Join Coach Paula for this reflective teaching and conversation on cultivating excellence in everyday life.
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June 28, 2026 - 7pm EST
💲- FREE for Community members
This is the monthly gathering for The Front Porch community members.
There is no agenda. No pressure to share. Just a virtual porch to sit on, together.
NOTE: The link takes you to the community so you can join. Membership is FREE and has privileges.
Once you join the Front Porch community, you will see the full details and access instructions for The Hangout and all other activities.
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⚓ - MONTHLY ANCHORS - Ongoing rhythms each month
July 1 - Sept 30, 2026
💲- $97
Every quarterly offering of the GPS Accountability Circle has a theme and follows a month teaching cadence of Growth, Purpose and Success. This quarter's focus is Embodied Ownership.
The Growth lens explores Openness and Willingness.
The Purpose lens uses the I, TRANSFORMED Framework and will explore Faithfulness, Ownership and Rest.
The Success lens uses the RICH Framework and will focus on Confidence.
Includes all GPS teaching as well as pH Academy Own teaching on Awareness, Intention and Momentum.
In essence, the quarterly program includes 6 full courses plus group coaching, accountability and support.
NOTE: The GPS Accountability Circle is for women only.
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Class open 1/1 -12/31/26
💲- $27
ROOTed Rhythms™ is a gentle, yearlong rhythm designed to help you grow more grounded, more aware, and more aligned with God’s pace for your life.
Through weekly 1-minute teachings, reflective journaling, and seasonal Pot Checks™, you’ll cultivate a sustainable spiritual rhythm rooted in truth, not pressure.
Enroll for $27 and receive access for the full 2026 journey, with integration through June 30, 2027.
Grow slow. Root deep. You don’t have to rush. You just have to return.
Enrollment is ongoing throughout the year.
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ROOTwork & GRIEFwork Devotionals - Justice
ROOTwork is a sacred invitation to grow deeper, steadier, and stronger from the inside out.
The GRIEFwork Devotional Series is a sacred space for navigating loss with honesty, gentleness, and grace.
Monthly devotionals of the same work though two difference lenses each month.
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Self-Led/Independence
💲- $5
Emotional intelligence is not learned once, but lived always.
Welcome to the pH EQ Reset Series. This month’s theme, Self-Led, is about Independence.
Self-led independence is not about pushing others away or proving you can do everything alone. It is about recognizing that your choices, your voice, and your direction belong to you.
NOTE: These Journals are offered in 2026 at a limited-time launch price.
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July 5, 2026 - 7pm EST
💲- FREE
Every month a word. Every word a way forward.
This month's topic - JUSTICE in Grief
In July, we explore what JUSTICE means within grief.
Grief awakens a deep longing for fairness, truth, and alignment. “Justice” helps you make peace with unanswered questions, honor your voice, and stand firm in your worth.
Registration for one event provides access to all meetings for 2026.
Hope to see you there!
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July 7, 2026 - Substack
💲- FREE
Every month on the 7th, Selaya offers a reflective word - a pause for your soul and a spark for your spirit.
The spoken work is on the odd months and the written work is on the even work. All of the work can be viewed on Substack using the link. Lean in as Selaya Speaks.
Follow the blog for notifications.
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July 9 - August 27, 2026
💲- $177
Attend the inaugural RESPONSE Code Cohort.
Most people do not need more information. They need training in how to respond. The RESPONSE Code helps you build a consistent response practice in your everyday life.
Over 8 weeks, we will explore The RESPONSE Rhythm Framework and the 12 responses (Yes, No, Wait, Go, Now, Later, Pause, Hold, Stop, Stay, Return, Rest) within the RESPONSE Code Methodology with practical instruction and personal application.
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July 10, 2026 - 12 noon EST
💲- FREE
Join Coach Paula for this month's Titration Talks discussion. It will be a practical dialogue on building a rooted rule of life that transforms chaos into clarity.
We will focus on how order can generate energy, simplify decision-making, and give you momentum without feeling boxed in.
Hope to see you there!
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July 11, 2026 - 8-9am EST
💲- see below
Captain’s Corner is a new 5-part teaching series designed to honor and strengthen the role of men as builders, protectors, and legacy carriers.
Session One is The Weight of a Man and emphasizes the presence and responsibility he carries. Every man carries weight — responsibility, expectation, and the quiet pressure to hold things together.
In this session, we explore how a man’s presence, consistency, and emotional steadiness shape the atmosphere of a home and the people within it.
The session is 60 minutes with an additional 30 minute Q&A session for VIP registrants.
Each class may be taken individually or as part of the full series.
✔ Individual Session — $37
✔ VIP Session — $57 (includes live Q&A and additional resources)
✔ Full Series (5) — General $147; VIP $247
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July 17, 2026 - 12 noon EST
💲- FREE
Join me for TEA with Me - a 30-minute monthly drop-in conversation where we sip Thought, Experience and Application for life, love, grief, growth and anything!
It is not a presentation - it's a conversation. Bring your questions or just your presence.
Registration provides access to all monthly meetings. Hope to see you there!
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July 26, 2026 - 7pm EST
💲- FREE for Community members
This is the monthly gathering for The Front Porch community members.
There is no agenda. No pressure to share. Just a virtual porch to sit on, together.
NOTE: The link takes you to the community so you can join. Membership is FREE and has privileges.
Once you join the Front Porch community, you will see the full details and access instructions for The Hangout and all other activities.
— ✦ —
⚓ - MONTHLY ANCHORS - Ongoing rhythms each month
July 1 - Sept 30, 2026
💲- $97
Every quarterly offering of the GPS Accountability Circle has a theme and follows a month teaching cadence of Growth, Purpose and Success. This quarter's focus is Embodied Ownership.
The Growth lens explores Openness and Willingness.
The Purpose lens uses the I, TRANSFORMED Framework and will explore Faithfulness, Ownership and Rest.
The Success lens uses the RICH Framework and will focus on Confidence.
Includes all GPS teaching as well as pH Academy Own teaching on Awareness, Intention and Momentum.
In essence, the quarterly program includes 6 full courses plus group coaching, accountability and support.
NOTE: The GPS Accountability Circle is for women only.
— ✦ —
Class open 1/1 -12/31/26
💲- $27
ROOTed Rhythms™ is a gentle, yearlong rhythm designed to help you grow more grounded, more aware, and more aligned with God’s pace for your life.
Through weekly 1-minute teachings, reflective journaling, and seasonal Pot Checks™, you’ll cultivate a sustainable spiritual rhythm rooted in truth, not pressure.
Enroll for $27 and receive access for the full 2026 journey, with integration through June 30, 2027.
Grow slow. Root deep. You don’t have to rush. You just have to return.
Enrollment is ongoing throughout the year.
— ✦ —
ROOTwork & GRIEFwork Devotionals - Justice
ROOTwork is a sacred invitation to grow deeper, steadier, and stronger from the inside out.
The GRIEFwork Devotional Series is a sacred space for navigating loss with honesty, gentleness, and grace.
Monthly devotionals of the same work though two difference lenses each month.
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Ownership Matters
💲- $5
Emotional intelligence is not learned once, but lived always.
Welcome to the pH EQ Reset Series. This month’s theme, Ownership Matters, is about Responsibility.
This month is about noticing where you step forward with responsibility and where you might step back or wait for circumstances to change. Ownership is less about control and more about participation. It is the practice of showing up fully for the life you are living.
NOTE: These Journals are offered in 2026 at a limited-time launch price.
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August 2, 2026 - 7pm EST
💲- FREE
Every month a word. Every word a way forward.
This month's topic - ANCHOR in Grief
In August, we explore what ANCHOR means within grief.
As waves of grief rise and fall, “Anchor” offers grounding. Our discussion will steady your heart, strengthen your identity, and remind you that you are not drifting alone.
Registration for one event provides access to all meetings for 2026.
Hope to see you there!
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August 7, 2026 - Substack
💲- FREE
Every month on the 7th, Selaya offers a reflective word - a pause for your soul and a spark for your spirit.
The spoken work is on the odd months and the written work is on the even work. All of the work can be viewed on Substack using the link. Lean in as Selaya Speaks.
Follow the blog for notifications.
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August 8, 2026 - 8-9am EST
💲- see below
Captain’s Corner is a new 5-part teaching series designed to honor and strengthen the role of men as builders, protectors, and legacy carriers.
Session Two is The Seed of a Man explores how how a man’s values, habits, and decisions become the seeds that grow in the lives around him, especially his family.
The session is 60 minutes with an additional 30 minute Q&A session for VIP registrants.
Each class may be taken individually or as part of the full series.
✔ Individual Session — $37
✔ VIP Session — $57 (includes live Q&A and additional resources)
✔ Full Series (5) — General $147; VIP $247
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August 14, 2026
💲- FREE
Join Coach Paula for this month's Titration Talks discussion. It will be a practical dialogue on building a rooted rule of life that transforms chaos into clarity.
We will focus on how order can generate energy, simplify decision-making, and give you momentum without feeling boxed in.
Hope to see you there!
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August 21, 2026 - 12 noon EST
💲- FREE
Join me for TEA with Me - a 30-minute monthly drop-in conversation where we sip Thought, Experience and Application for life, love, grief, growth and anything!
It is not a presentation - it's a conversation. Bring your questions or just your presence.
Registration provides access to all monthly meetings. Hope to see you there!
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August 23, 2026 - 7pm EST
💲- FREE for Community members
This is the monthly gathering for The Front Porch community members.
There is no agenda. No pressure to share. Just a virtual porch to sit on, together.
NOTE: The link takes you to the community so you can join. Membership is FREE and has privileges.
Once you join the Front Porch community, you will see the full details and access instructions for The Hangout and all other activities.
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🧪In the Lab Cultivating what's next! More to come - Check back often!